Perhaps you are playing a naughty nurse and her patient, and you need to see if your patient is having troubles with orgasms. Well, the best way to check this is to see what ‘happens’ when a penis pump is used. Hmmmm, how does that feel?
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Of course, if you have a maid scenario, you can also be a master of sex toys that you need to test on her, or that she needs to use on you. That sounds like fun—toymaker and test subject. I wouldn’t mind that one at all. Product testing at its best.
Doing it for yourself
A hot game that a lot of couples like to try is mutual masturbation with sex toys. As men are the visual gender, they love to watch a woman use a vibrator on herself. But that doesn’t mean that the man is left to drool, he can use a penis pump at the same time. See who has an orgasm first. Or last. Who can wait it out? The alternative to this game is that one person could find a remote control vibrator or other discreet vibrator for their partner to use. Play the game of ‘who knows when it will turn on’ with the remote control. It’s sure to create sexual tension. Or with the mini vibrator you can give your partner a schedule of times to use it, as well as places. Do it out in the open for a great rush. Dark parking garages are always hot, or have your partner use it while they drive to meet you. Wet with anticipation is the key. Don’t allow the partner to orgasm until you want them to. Or when you want to watch. Of course, there are some people (you know who you are) who have an active fantasy life and can use sex toys to get pleasure when you’re by yourself. Close your eyes, pinch and caress your breasts or chest, imagine that special person and then taunt yourself with a vibrator or a penis sleeve while you sink into the pillow screaming your own name.
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Sex toys and bondage is the ultimate combination. With a helpless partner, you have a whole bunch of tools of pleasure at your disposal to use. Fasten their arms and legs in cuffs and then see how many times and ways you can pleasure them. Vibrators are essential, but put on a blindfold to heighten the experience. They’re never know they’re/it’s coming. You can also use a little anal play in the bondage game. Use the vibrator and an anal plug at the same time for a filling good time. The effect is amazing. And who can resist a little spank with a paddle or whip when you have the person tied on their stomach?
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There have been so many advances in the field of sexual technology over the last decade that it can be somewhat overwhelming. Machines like the F-Machine Pro 2 or accessories like the UR3 Hung have made sexual fantasies come to life for countless people who never thought they'd actually get the opportunity to realize their hidden desires. But what if what pushes your sex drive buttons is some good old masturbation? Well, lucky for you, the sex toy industry has made huge advances in that area too, and there are many options beyond the basic lube and hand. One of the most realistic, close-to-sex toys on the market right now is found in the Fleshlight line.
Masturbators now can be so close to the real thing, it's hard to tell them apart. For example, the Fleshlight is a brand of male sex toys whose main product, the Fleshlight itself, is about the size of a flashlight and shaped like a vagina. Since the first one was developed years ago, the Fleshlight has made even more detailed changes, and now can be found in hundreds of different varieties, including pussy castings of your favorite porn stars (the Girls series) all the way to the unrealistic "Freaks!" design. The original designers intended to make masturbators higher quality and allow the users to have a better image regarding masturbation itself: that it should be enjoyed, accepted and fun!
The outside of a general Fleshlight is a well-built, solid casing, holding the inside, where all the textures occur. They can range from a simple smooth tunnel to wild, intricate details and designs, so finding the right texture for your needs is very important. The Fleshlight brand comes complete with its own set of accessories that are just as high quality as the masturbators themselves, including shower mounts, lubricants, and renewing powders. Fleshlights can be rated by realistic features and by the inner canal textures, making masturbating with this toy about as close as you can get to the real thing without a woman actually there.
If you're looking for a little more variety than a basic Fleshlight, you won't be disappointed by the options available. Try the Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit Pack masturbator, where, of course, you get the look and feel of anal play. Or, there's the Fleshlight VIbro Pink Lady, where you get the extra sensation of vibration with your masturbation toy. If blow jobs are your thing, Fleshlight makes the mouth versions too, which are just as realistic as a real mouth.
How does it work? Well, like we said, there is a solid casing on the outside of the masturbator, and the entrance is sealed with a twistable top cap that covers the opening when you're not using it. There's also an end cap for air control to keep it tight, and for cleaning use. The inner sleeve is soft and silky, and very flexible. The flashlight design itself is based on the idea that most men have flashlights lying around, so you can kind of get away with having your masturbation toy there if someone happens to spot it from a distance, but anyone who sees it remotely up close is going to know what it is, so you might want to keep it hidden.
The sleeves themselves inside the case are interchangeable, so after you purchase the first Fleshlight, you can buy different sleeves to try them out. It's recommended that you soak it in warm water before use for a bit to bring the temperature up, but it's not necessary. However, Fleshlight provides a warmer for just this specific thing. If you're looking to get that "just like sex" feeling, you might want to take the extra few minutes and warm it up, but if you don't, the Fleshlight will warm up to body temperature with use. Obviously, you're going to need some lube. We recommend Fleshlight's brand, just because it really is good. All total, there's a little more prep involved than the basic hand pump, but we promise it's worth it.
The Fleshlight line has revolutionized the sex toy industry. Masturbators are no longer simply functional. Take a few minutes to check out the different options available, and the next time you feel the urge to take care of business yourself, do so with your own Fleshlight. The experience will truly change the way you think and feel about masturbation, and you may just decide you don't need the real thing after all!
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You would think that sex would never get boring. Unfortunately sometimes we allow ourselves to get into a routine. Everyone craves the excitement of doing something new and different. If you want to fire up your passion for each other again, try playing a few couples games in or out of the bedroom.
Here are some fun do it yourself games for couples that you can play tonight. Increase your arousal and desire for each other as you laugh and play together. You'll both win with great sex as the reward.
Frisky Dice: Use two different colored dice -- say red and black. This gives you 36 possible combinations (only 11 if the dice are the same color). Create a list of 36 foreplay activities, sex positions or role play ideas to match each die combination. Then whenever you want some exciting random sex, roll the dice and see what frisky idea you will be enjoying.
Hide & Seek Sex: Choose five to ten items and hide them around the house. Each item should correspond to a certain type of sex play activity. You hide them around your house and ask your partner to find them. The first one they find determines what you will both be doing later. For example, hide different types of sex toys or role playing accessories -- first one found is the one you play with. You can also hide sticky notes or sex coupons with sex positions, fantasies, different locations or role playing ideas. Or, create an entire list of foreplay activities to seek and enjoy when and where you find them. See if you can find all of them before you ravish each other completely.
Carnal Cards: For a standard deck of cards, create a list of foreplay or sex play activities corresponding to each card (52), colored card (26 red & black) or value Ace to King (13). Now you can shuffle and deal for sex ideas or play one of many regular card games for two with an erotic twist. Agree on certain events in the game where one of the played cards needs to be PLAYED. For example, play War and perform a foreplay activity corresponding to any matching card value that causes a war.
Wild Wagers: You can bet on almost anything. With an erotic imagination, you can come up with creative wagers involving sexual rewards or foreplay forfeits for almost any event or situation. Although playing your own competitive games together is more rewarding, sports programs on TV, murder mysteries and even stock market results can be a source for great sex you can bet on. When you are confident you will win, propose something your partner has asked for but hasn't gotten yet -- sweeten the pot but ask for something you really want too. When you gamble with pleasure in this way, you both win.
Playing any couples game with your partner is quality time that will enhance your relationship. Add some sexy twists to your adult game play and you will spice up your sex life too. Instead of going out to the movies or even the video store, stay home and create your own intimate entertainment rated R (or better yet, X).
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Are sex toys a turn on? Do women enjoy experimenting with "props" in bed? And how do you bring UP the idea of bringing sex toys into the erotic equation in the first place? In this article we are going to take a quick and insightful look at what women like (or don't) when it comes to sexual accouterments in the sack! Curious to know more? Great... continue reading as we take a closer look below!
Okay... but aren't sex toys really only a turn on for men? I thought women only pretended to enjoy that stuff so HE would be happy?
The truth? Many women LOVE sex toys and have a large collection of their own that they enjoy both in private... AND with a partner! The simple truth is the days of a woman needing to feel embarrassed, ashamed or "easy" because she enjoys experimenting with passion props are thankfully, long gone. As a matter of fact, many women will gladly tell you the sorts of toys they like, they have... or even that they'd love for you to pick up as your relationship grows and the erotic experimentation expands!
Do all women feel the same way?
Absolutely not, no. Some women feel a social, or sexual stigma about using toys for gratification. Others feel a bit embarrassed, or have other objections as well. But in my experience, and this seems to be growing year after year, more and more women are actively enjoying these sorts of things in private... openly discuss them with our female friends, and as we grow more comfortable (or bold 🙂 with our partners, they are easy to integrate into a more adventurous sex life to boot!
Are there any particular toys that are best?
It really depends on the woman, AND on the man. For example, many smaller men are well suited to use different toys for HER sexual stimulation, than a more well endowed man would need. Or different women have different fetishes, or sensitive spots, or tastes across the board. So communication is key... and the type of body both HE and she have plays a pretty significant role in what sort of props are going to work BEST for both of you!